OVER TIME
A trustworthy contact tends to be consistent
Small mistakes happen, but repeated major contradictions deserve caution.
AN IMPORTANT SIGNAL
Notice how someone reacts to your boundaries
A respectful person accepts no and understands that you may need time.
AFFINITY IS A STARTING POINT
Shared interests create connection, but behaviour builds trust
Liking the same music, sharing a passion or having similar values can make conversation feel closer. Use those common points to discover more about each other, while also noticing whether curiosity and respect remain mutual over time.
- Both people show genuine curiosity.
- Different opinions are respected.
- Interest goes both ways.
- No one pressures the other to move faster.
PRIVACY
Trust does not require you to share sensitive information
Passwords and bank details should remain private.
Requests for money are a warning sign
Do not transfer money to someone you met online.
MEETING OFFLINE
Choose a first date where you both keep your independence
A public place and separate transport preserve flexibility.
YOUR JUDGEMENT
A bad feeling is enough reason to wait
You do not have to prove something is wrong before postponing a meeting.